As a mother of three children (11, 9, and almost 7 years old) my work includes the the following responsibilities: chauffeur, waitress, housekeeper, spiritual and grief counselor, stylist, party planner, nutritionist, and scapegoat for all the goes wrong at school. This leaves some energy to be a supportive and loving wife to my super patient husband. I still trying to figure out how to live the life I have instead of attempt to live the life I don't have.